I’ve been married for love and I wouldn’t trade those experiences for anything.
They were incredible people in my life, and I don’t regret a single second of those journeys.
I’m genuinely happy to see them continuing to grow, thrive, and find peace, joy… and new love.
I’ve also had some amazing relationships along the way. A few I wish I’d skipped, sure.
But most? They were exactly what I needed in that moment.
And I’m thankful for every one. (Yes, even the ones I should have skipped.)
Right now though…
My focus is on me.
On God.
And on building something worthy of the relationship I’m cultivating with Him.
If another incredible woman becomes part of that story, I’m open. I’ll admit, I can be quite the romantic. But, unlike times past, she’s not the mission.
He is.
If He brings someone into my life, I trust it’ll be because she’s meant to help me glorify Him.
And together, we’ll rise in alignment not distraction.
And when that connection comes…
We’ll get each other’s pasts.
We won’t judge them.
We won’t relive them.
We’ll leave the past in the past, focused fully on the present and building our future together.
Until then… it’s me and God, and the wonderful people He has placed around me for us all to grow together and support each other as we prepare for what happens next.
And honestly? I’ve never grown like I have this past year.
I’ve taken plenty of road trips over the years chasing peace in solitude… but this stretch of inner work?
It’s different.
I’ve felt things, learned things, and healed things I never would have otherwise.
And I’m grateful. Grateful beyond words for this season.
What you might not see from the outside is the foundation being laid right now, brick by brick, for something massive.
As Sun Tzu said… “Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt.”
My health is better than it’s been in over a decade.
I feel strong.
Clear.
Focused.
I’ve always said most people can’t keep up with me when I’m in the zone… and never has that been more true than right now.
My productivity is on another level. Opportunities are showing up left and right.
This season?
It’s a test of my focus, my faith, and my resolve.
And I intend to build back greater than I ever have before.
Not for me. But because nothing less would be worthy of what my relationship with God has become.
If I do bring a woman into this, it won’t be because I’m lonely. Because I’m not.
It’ll be because I believe her to already be resilient. Already driven. Already worthy of walking this path by my side.
More importantly and better still…
If God brings her into my life…
I’ll KNOW she already is.